leader-tested guidance

Hints for Leaders Who’ve Been There

The Kingdom Prayer Armory is easier to understand when people actually use it together.

Some things only become obvious after you have sat around a table, worked through scenarios, heard different card choices, and watched people learn to pray in a new way.

Here are a few things experienced leaders have learned.

Go deeper instead of wider

You do not need to work through a lot of scenarios.

One good scenario, discussed carefully, will usually teach more than several scenarios worked quickly.

Ask people what card they chose and why. Let them compare their reasoning. Talk about which choices fit, which ones can probably be ruled out, and whether one choice seems clearer than another.

The discussion is often where the real learning happens.

Do not rush to the “right” answer

There may be more than one reasonable way to frame a situation.

The goal is not to teach people to guess the answer in the Leader’s Guide or Armory app. The goal is to teach them how to slow down, look carefully at the cards, explain their reasoning, and pray from what is clear.

Treat the Example framing as one reasonable way to understand the scenario, not the answer.

Have the group make its own choices first. Then compare those choices with the Example framing.

Use the Card Index as a signpost

The Card Index is a great place to start when someone is trying to find the right card.

But do not stop there.

Once a possible card has been identified, turn to the actual card and read it. The title may sound right while the Core Truths, Use When, Direction, or Avoid sections show that another card fits better.

Teach participants to investigate the card, not just recognize its title.

Use the Deep-Dive Worksheet from the beginning

Do not wait until participants understand the whole Armory before using the Deep-Dive Worksheet.

Start with whatever they know.

Early in the course, they may only complete the Authority section. Then they can add Identity, Situation, Discernment, and eventually Warfare as those parts are introduced.

The worksheet helps participants slow down, put the card truths into their own words, and begin turning what they are learning into actual prayer.

Over time, it also prepares them to use the Kingdom Prayer Armory Journal more naturally.

Download the Deep-Dive Worksheet

Make sure prayer actually happens

It is possible to have an excellent discussion about prayer without doing much praying.

Do not let that happen.

Once the group has worked through the cards, help them turn those truths into prayer.

Early in the course, some people may be uncomfortable praying aloud by themselves. That is okay. You can let everyone write a short prayer first, pray in pairs, pray together as a group, or use a “Waterfall of Prayer,” where everyone quietly prays aloud at the same time.

As confidence grows, begin giving participants more opportunities to pray individually.

The goal is not to put anyone on the spot. The goal is to help people become comfortable praying what they are learning.

Ask “why?” often

One of the best questions a leader can ask is:

“Why did you choose that card?”

Follow it with questions like:

  • What on the card made you choose it?
  • What other card did you consider?
  • What could we probably rule out?
  • Does another card fit the situation more clearly?
  • Are we choosing this because of the facts or because of the pressure surrounding them?

You are teaching people how to discern, not simply how to select cards.

Keep the story from taking over the prayer

Real prayer requests can become long.

When that happens, help the group remove the noise.

Ask:

  • What actually happened?
  • What are we assuming?
  • What are we feeling?
  • What information really affects how we pray?
  • Can we state the main situation in one or two sentences?

The goal is not to dismiss someone's story. It is to get clear enough to pray.

Do not make warfare the exciting part

When spiritual warfare is introduced, some people will want to use it everywhere. Others may want to avoid it completely.

Keep bringing the group back to discernment.

Ask:

“What actually confirms spiritual opposition?”

Warfare should come because the situation calls for it, not because the situation feels intense.

Calm authority is usually a better sign of healthy warfare than dramatic language.

Give people permission to stop

Participants may feel like a good prayer needs to cover everything.

It does not.

If the primary issue has been prayed, clarity has come, and peace has returned, the group may be finished for now.

Another layer can be prayed later.

Stopping is not quitting. Sometimes it is trust.

Protect discussion time

Do not rush the discussion questions to get to the next activity.

The conversations about why people chose their cards, what they noticed, what they assumed, and what changed as they prayed are a major part of the training.

If you are short on time, it is usually better to drop an optional scenario than to rush through the discussion.

Remember what success looks like

Success is not getting through every page.

Success is when participants begin to:

  • start with God instead of the problem
  • remember who they are in Christ
  • slow down before reacting
  • distinguish the situation from the pressure surrounding it
  • investigate the cards instead of grabbing the first one that sounds right
  • explain why they made a choice
  • pray what is clear
  • recognize when warfare is and is not appropriate
  • stop when peace and clarity return

When those things begin happening more naturally, the Armory is becoming more than a system they understand.

It is becoming part of the way they pray.

Leader resources

Use these resources alongside the leader hints as you prepare, practice, and guide the group.